Being asked questions is perceived as a demand by many children. In fact, questions or demands actually raise blood pressure in the child, putting them on the defensive! Use declarative language instead!
Your role is to not “cure” the child of autism but to improve communication which bolsters the autistic child’s growth and development and therefore helps to set and strengthen a foundation that encourages independent living.
As a parent, we experience much joy when our autistic child gains the ability to answer static questions, but what does it look like for our child to communicate in a much deeper sense, and how do we help them improve?
Recommendations for developing mindful, experience-sharing communicationChanging the approach to the way you interact with your child can make all the difference in his or her mental...
In the RDI program, our focus is not on language when we talk about speech therapy, it is about RDI lifestyle and daily life opportunities, simple life activities that promote mutual communication.
By practicing consistent directive methods, you can master communication challenges, even if your child with ASD is non-verbal.
Is teaching words the best way or is there something more?
This blog post was originally posted on the website of RDI® Certified Consultant Melissa Reiner. You can read the original here. As a parent, I hear myself often pleading with my child to be a first...
Are you willing to teach your autistic child to equip him/her for life?
A RDI consultant speaks on finding the tools to connect and communicate , and to help with self regulation. A helpful video gives a window into RDI being put into practice.
RDI consultant Zoe Thompson shares video progress of RDI in action!
How does RDI help lay the foundations of communication? Find out here.
This blog post was originally published on the Peer Projects Therapy website. You can read the original here. We know that for many children, connecting with peers in a positive,...
Here are some questions to ask yourself about your child’s use of eye contact.
Mindfully using declarative language for better communication!
What are they really trying to tell you when they say “no”?
Declarative communication can be verbal or non verbal. It is the opposite of imperative communication, which demands answers to questions.
With declarative communication a response is neither expected nor required. It’s okay if your child doesn’t respond to your declarative statement. For example: if you stated “These oranges are sweet.”, we would not expect a reciprocal statement.
Using non-verbal communication, pausing & pacing to seek & share emotional reactions.
Communication is far beyond words and talking. And it is much more than having needs met, isn’t it?
Learning to listen to your special needs child.
A veteran RDI mom gives some tips on communication.
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Co regulation is the simplest form or the prototype of communication.
Shifting the focus of communication, gave this mother back her relationship with her son.
Sometimes the word “no”, does not mean what you think.
Non-verbal communication is part of the RDI story.
What are they really thinking when they yell “NO”?
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