Your priority in addressing violent stimming is to remain calm and to keep your child and family safe. It may feel incredibly difficult when you are in the middle of an aggressive behavioral episode with your child but know that there are things that you can do to help the situation.
What Causes Regression in Individuals with Autism?
Autistic burnout can occur at any point in your child’s life, but it commonly presents during times of transition, such as toddlerhood, adolescence, or young adulthood. At these pivoting stages in life, children experience many changes which may promote stress and can lead to an episode of burnout.
Laying the Foundation for Intrinsic Motivation through Declarative Language
Being asked questions is perceived as a demand by many children. In fact, questions or demands actually raise blood pressure in the child, putting them on the defensive! Use declarative language instead!
Benefits of Free Time for Kids
Your child learns and develops from planned activities, but with a balance of free time, space is given for your child to naturally develop the motivation to learn.
Online Schooling When Your Child has Autism
Fall has arrived, and your child’s school has gone to online education due to the pandemic. You are not trained as a teacher. You have no idea how to manage online schooling for your child who has autism. What should the schooling focus be? How do you begin to adjust your life to this?
What is My Role as a Parent in Autism Treatment?
Do you look at your therapist or consultant as the authority that possesses the main role in your child’s autism treatment? You are the one that holds the dreams for your child’s development in life, and you are also the one that can best provide home-based opportunities for your child’s mental and self-growth.
Covid 19 Off the Rails: The Emotional Roller Coaster
It’s Wednesday—like no Wednesday we’ve ever known.Dr Sarah Wayland ( RDI Consultant and Parent) joins Parent to Parent host Kat Lee, revisiting the Emotional Roller Coaster in these...
Caring For Children And Teens With Special Needs During A Global Pandemic
Every now and then I come across a message so timely, an interview so relevant that I find myself wanting it to arrive in your inbox before I’ve even sent it. Dr. Sarah Wayland, RDI parent coach...
RDI At Home: Parenting in a Challenging Time
It’s Sunday—like no Sunday we’ve ever known. Maisie and Pete: This short description of steps to maintain and healthy lifestyle while our children are home all day will quickly pinpoint important...
Covid 19: At Home with Our Children
Even the most intrepid saint-like parents might feel the ominous weight and pressure of cabin fever when family time is not a choice but a 24/7 sequestered reality. Especially difficult are...
Presumed Competence
How Believing in Our Kids will Help Them Believe in Themselves
Your Child’s Potential
This blog post was originally published here. 90% of parents (if not more) share this common concern. “I know my child has good potential. But I don’t know how to tap into it.” This need not be at...
Helping Our Children Become Life-Long Learners
Guide your children to be life-long participated learners with these steps.
Tough Questions Parents Should be Asking Themselves
Moving out of your comfort zone means asking some tough questions.
Slowing Down Your Life: Self Care for Autism Parents
Slowing down is always the first thing I look at with any new family. You have to take care of yourself FIRST.
MindGuiding Develops the Brain!
At RDIconnect, our programs focus on rebuilding the brain’s neural pathways that have disrupted the naturally occurring parent-child Guiding Relationship, which opens the door to...
Mindful Parenting
This blog post was originally posted on the brightsideoflife.com. It was also posted on the RDIconnect blog page in May, 2015. Mindful Parenting Mindful parenting sounds so easy, however, unless you...
Parents Helping Parents: A Webinar
Many parents will ask “what activities should I do?” Kat will take a deeper dive into this topic discussing not only what you should be doing but WHY this question may come about in the first place.
Obstacles to Guiding
What challenges are normal when it comes to Guiding your child with autism?
After the Diagnosis: Autism Awareness Month Special Webinar
Kat Lee as she talks about what to do after your child receives an autism diagnosis in a special webinar for autism awareness month.
Treating Your Autistic Child with Respect
How to Treat Your Autistic Child Respectfully and Create a Better Family Life
Parent Training: What it is?
Parent Education is about defining what autism actually is, getting to the core of the obstacles it presents, and not just putting a bandaid on behavior management.
Autism Parent Success: Shifting Focus
I invite you to step back and look at the strengths you have working in your favour (as the parent of a child with autism).
What It Really Means to Presume Competence in Your Child
Are you going to be the parent who believes in his/her child? Are you going to presume competence?
The Many Meanings of “NO”
What are they really trying to tell you when they say “no”?
Slowing Down in Autism Treatment
You have permission to slow down!
Are you Experiencing “Autism Burnout”?
Slowing down gives you a chance to be mindful and to let go of the chaos and hectic lifestyle of most autism therapies.
To Make Your Child With Autism Thrive, You Must Do This First
To every mother who wants to wants to live a happier and healthier life – it’s never too late.
We All Have Our Parenting Kryptonite
As parents, we are only human.
Why It’s Time to Stop Teaching ‘Right and Wrong’ to Your Child
This guest blog post was originally published on the saiconnections blog page. You can read the original here. Three friends show up at your door to surprise you. It’s dinner time. You haven’t...
This is Better Than Eye Contact For Your Child
Of course, you want your child to look at you. But have you thought how it feels for him?
Accept and Believe in Your Child
Accept and Believe in your child. We all know what critical looks and sounds like.
5 Simple Steps to Get Rid of the “I’m-Not-Doing-Enough” Feeling
If we’re too close to a situation how can we see it clearly? If we are so enmeshed with our children, how can we guide them properly?
Filling Your Child’s bucket
If your child’s bucket is being continually drained, they need to be able to replenish the supply.
Are You Stealing Your Child’s Thinking?
Changing our style of teaching children with autism from ‘static’ to ‘dynamic’ uses activities that require the child to ‘think’ his way to a solution.
Entertaining Your Autistic Child
Is constant entertaining a good thing?
The Parenting Tightrope
When you thought about having children, what were your dreams for your child?
Partnering with Your Child
A partnership is one where both parties have authentic roles in a meaningful task, activity, or project.
Listen Up!
Learning to listen to your special needs child.
A Guide to Your Child
Creating a Simple Guide for Your Child’s Teacher
The Importance of Parenting
Both parents are equally important to the success of RDI.
How to Teach Your Child to Learn by Himself
The parent guiding relationship is essential for activating growth-seeking.
Kayaking Through Life: Supporting Kids with Challenges
Kids respond in different ways to being challenged, and the ways they respond can drive a parent’s response.
Change Starts with You Mom
We autism Moms can’t give what we don’t have! We need help, just like our kids do.
Guiding Exceptional Parents
Achieving quality of life with RDI is possible.
